Things really hit home that last few days with Charlottesville. I wasn’t really paying attention to the news or Facebook over the weekend until Sunday, really. I was distraught but not surprised. That evening I wanted to take Collin with me to the vigil and i didnt know how he’d react since there were going to be so many candles. We have been practicing blowing out bday candles and just went to a couple bdays the day before so I wanted to give him some advanced notice and explain the difference between a vigil and a birthday.